"Kill" Your Fear Before It "Kills" You

The most of the Fears we know about or are "familiar" with are fear of failure,getting bankrupt,fear for our health,losing job,losing love,.....
(even we can have a book to mention the Fears of our life).

But Father of all those Fears,

Pillar on which all other Fears gets concretes,

A single Fear to which all other Fears are associated in one way or other is,

FEAR OF OUR OWN SOCIETY OR PEOPLE SURROUNDING OURSELVES!!!!!!!!!

Sound ridiculous?

But it is true as people lives 93% of their life according to their society or people surrounding them (guess what,rest of the 7% are the most successful and famous persons on this planet).

How many times we choose a Shirt or Jeans or Apparel and reject it just because of the reason that it is not supposed to be worn in the party or function we are going??????!!!!!!

It happens throughout our life.We spend our whole life according to the wish of our society or our surrounding.We live according to them,what society demands,what it thinks,what it expects etc. and rarely we dare to think about living the life in our own way.The way which satisfies ourselves most.

OK let it clear by a general example (do not worry as it is not going to be an example of any successful person)

We do not know how to drive a bike and we are learning it on road near by our home.While learning,we do so many silly mistakes and falls off so many times off from our bike.Now through out our learning we consciously thinks about the people watching us(that is of the reason why we do silly things).All the time we used to think about what other will think of us!!!!!!!!

Now close your eyes and imagine that the whole city has been Exhausted and there is NO ONE (yes NO ONE) in the whole city.You are the only person left in the whole city.A single one.The"City is Empty".Now take out the bike and start learn to drive it.

Guess What ? You consciously will do all the silly things while learning and will enjoy it too.You will love experimenting with driving even you are just learning it.
You would like to do all the crazy things with your bike,
BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT THERE IS NO ONE WHO IS GOING TO WATCH YOU DOING THE SAME.

Actually we will not do anything crazy or different if there is no body to watch us but it is the way to overcome or Kill the Fear of Society.

Once we know that we are doing the things which satisfies us the most,without thinking about what other will comment on us,we attracts Success in our life.

One thing we have to learn about this Fear that there is always going to be the criticism on the other hand.

Even the greatest personalities of all time has some part of criticism on other side.
Take an example of Hitler,Mahatma Gandhi,Abraham Lincoln,Michael Jackson,Oprah Winfrey etc. . They all have been criticised in one way or another.But that is the part of the other side of their life.They did not take it,they did not mean it.So they attracted what so called a differentiable personalities.

Here are some exercise you can have to Kill your Fear of Society,

• Always follow your heart.Your inner one is the best mentor of yourself and will help you to be yourself.
• Before trying anything you have never tried before, imagine that the "City is Empty" and there is no one to watch what your are doing.
• Always expect criticism of your action. Their more you have the better you will learn on them.Keep a score card of your or make your "Criticism Account" to take care of it.You just have to accept it, try not to focus on it.Focus on the counts rather then the content of your criticism.
• Never share your Idea with anyone if you are not strong enough to take care of it's rejection.Instead, work on it and prove it.Indeed, it is very much important to share your thoughts to become Familiar with criticism.
• Forget that if you will dressed yourself as you like,you will be out of circle.Wear what you like to and go on.Best way is to chose the ones in which YOU find Yourself Confident enough rather than just looking good or handsome!!
• Try to do something different all the time.Play with your gesture,your hairstyle,your smile,your way of talking,way of walking,the way you drive etc.Go for all the things you have never tried before.Start it right now.You will find it amazing that you will be welcomed with that and surprised others too.
• Never throw yourself in any kind of Debate with anyone criticising you or your action.Even if you win you will lose your immense energy and power.Please do not waste it.Just give a smile to it indeed.
• Read lots and lots of Inspirational Books.This will keep you on the track.
• Never give up your thought on any criticism or comment. If you do not have any answer for that it does not mean that you are wrong.It simply means that you do not have to prove that you are right, because you know that YOU ARE.
• Take part in any sport activity.Take care of your health.This will keep you charged and feel confident.Keep yourself in shape.
• If somebody laughs at your action it just because that do not understand the change in you So instead getting swift away by you emotions of being humiliated as at least your action has bring smile to others.

This few simple steps will help you to be more confident and charged against your criticism.

Initially you may find it a bit difficult.It is just because you have not tried it before.

Just give yourself some time to get adjust with this.

Our Society has make such a boundaries to our imagination,our creativity,out thoughts and ideas that we have become nothing but a slave of our own community.

Life is so beautiful that it is not supposed to be waste on those comments and criticism.It is the beautiful Gift the God has given to us.

Let your life take full swing,full momentum that when ever it faces Fear Of Society,it literally Kills it.Kills right on the spot.

Be your own mentor,be your own guru,be your own boss.

Do not let your life controlled by others.

Have a wonderful life,

My all best wishes are with you always,

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